Ego!

What is egocentric? Self-centered? Selfish? I can say that those three words have the same meaning. Egocentrics regard oneself and one's own opinions or interests as most important or valid. They only care about their opinion, fuck other’s opinion off. They won’t listen to anybody’s opinion, even though they are wrong.

Been 22 years living in this world makes me realize that basically everybody is self-centered. Yes, everybody is egocentric with the different stage. I’ll try to explain the stages in my own point of view. Remember, this is my point of view, what I write here is based on my observation.

1. The first stage is included as “OKAY” stage. Why? Because this stage, the egocentrics do selfish to themselves. They do not hurt anybody else because of their egocentrism. This people know what best for themselves, they will try to find a way how to reach that without kicking somebody ass off. For example: two persons (A and B) have the same task. Both person are qualified and have already know the way how to manage their task. They do not help each other because of it. And they do not destroy each other too because they want to be the best! They compete fairly.
2. The second stage is “STUBBORN” stage. Nah this is rather annoying person ya. They actually know they are wrong but they keep doing it. They won’t listen to anybody by saying: “this is my life, don’t tell me what to do!” alrite alrite, this is your life, but listen to somebody’s opinion is not a crime too. Remember that you don’t live alone. There are million people surround you. If someone says good things so take it, or at least just think about it, err okay just listen to it, enough. They do that because they care of you. But on the other hand, if they say something bad to you, it is your choice. If they say it right, don’t be offended, just change your attitude, if it is wrong, go ahead! Nothing worries about it. But please, listen! And then think, ”am I doing it right?”
3. The third stage is “NINJA” stage. Hahaha why did I call em so? Because they are backstabber thingy. Yeaa they are nice in front of you but disgusting in your back. They act like they care but actually don’t. They will help you yeaa, but then they will leave you faster whenever they get a change. Uh-oh ninja!
4. The last stage is “ERROR” stage. Whoaaa this is the most dangerous stage ya know! This kinda person won’t hesitate to drag you down! Yes yes, I see these persons many times and everywhere. They are not hesitate to hurt somebody else even though their friends or family just to reach their goal, their egocentric goal. They will walk ahead without looking back. They don’t even care whether you are in a coma or bleeding between life and death. They are not afraid of other people life. They hate if people are better than them, thus they will do anything to cut you off, suckkksss!

Until now, I don’t know exactly why people like that do exist. Im just too lazy to talk to them. Hehe even though I have to admit it that I also selfish sometimes. Some people will be hurt of me but some people just take it easy. I do listen and FILTER of what people say. I just avoid hurting people’s feeling.

In my own opinion, being egocentric is a choice. But don't hurt other people moreover drag them down. Just go for your own business.

So again, this is only my opinion. Not opened for debate session! lol just kidding, comment would be appreciated. Siyah! 

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