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Kritik

Gara-gara keinget kata-kata salah satu artis di TV yang bilang kalo dia ga suka ada orang yang jelekin aktingnya dia trus bilang: "harusnya jangan cuma ngatain, buktiin kalo elo bisa lebih bagus dari gue!" and then me spontaneously laughing hahahahaha. Kenapa ketawa? udah ketauan banget ya kalo itu orang ga kebal kritik. Yaelaahhh namanya kritik wajar aja kalee, kalo ga mau dikritik ya jangan keluarin karya, ngedekem aja di rumah kalo takut kritik.

Apa karna doi artis baru kali yah jadi kaget banget sama yang namanya kritik? Umm bisa jadi. Karna aku yakin, walaupun bukan artis or famous person, kalo makin tinggi pohon makin kenceng angin, ya kan? Jadi dia belom ngerasain aja kalo dihujat habis-habisan. Baru dikritik ringan aja udah ngamuk bukk :) Yang namanya kritik itu biasa kali, kaya kelakuanku ni iseng-iseng nulis di blog, ngapain? ngritik kelakuanmu, hehe.

Nah terus nih ya, ada dua tipe manusia, sepengetahuan ane, setelah diterjang kritik:

1. Be wise

2. Makin norak dan melabeli dirinya idola haters, yaelahh :)

Kita bahas ya, yang pertama pasti akan segera sadar bahwa iya, memang karya perdananya banyak kekurangan. Banyak yang harus dibenahi. Toh yang pertama memang ga sempurna kan? itung-itung percobaan, ehehehe. Dia bakal belajar gimana sih biar pada karya dia yang selanjutnya dia ga bakal dikritik pada poin yang sama. Malah say thanks buat yang udah kasih kritik. Means they got lotsa lessons to be learned as a newbie.

Yang kedua ini yang agak rese. Boro-boro belajar, yang ada malah neglunjak. Makin pede dengan sensasi yang dia bikin. Makin seneng kalo orang ngejelekin dia. Makin bangga kalo punya banyak haters *facepalm. Nih ya ane kasih tempe, tahunya habis nih *jayusWikk* :) lanjut, kalo yang ga suka sama kamu itu cuma satu dua orang sih wajar, berarti ada yg salah di mereka. Tapi kalo yang ga suka sekampung? se-Indonesia raya? Yang salah ada di siapa?

Iya sih don't judge the book by its cover, tapi rata-rata cowo milih cewe awalnya dari covernya kan? Nyambungnya dimana? Ga ada :D Sooo, sebagai bukan artis nihh ane cuma bisa bilang ke artis-artis baru, kuat aja ngadepin ceceran orang sedunia. Kritik itu biasa, dikelitikin itu geli, uopo seehh --"

Anyway ini postingan iseng-iseng aja yah, jangan dimasukin hati apalagi dompet, ane ga bagi-bagi THR :)

dahh!

beautiw 

very random thought

Halloooo been a century didn’t write anything here. Well just for a review, for the last two months I’ve been busy with all my graduation stuff. What am I doing? Just staying at home, teaching, reading whatsoever. Am I bored? Hellyeah sometimes. Why didn’t I find a job? Oh I did, im now still busy with the interview test here and there. What do you want to be actually? Well I want nothing but rich! Haha

Sounds greedy, huh? I don’t care. Money matters nowadays, it can buy happiness tho :p

So here I am, home after got an interview in a certain bank. How do I feel? Umm I feel happy of course because it means that they read my CV :D honestly I dunno exactly what am I feeling because im a fresh graduate from English Literature. I want to try this and that. Just go with the flow and see what the future will brings.

I have applied to some banks and companies in my city Surabaya. To be honest I don’t want to work outside Surabaya yet. Why? Nah, I won’t tell you! For me personally I want to have a job that I like but on the other side I want to find a new experience. Oh I just want to have a lot of money for my mom and dad. For I can buy them anything they want just like they always give me what I want.

So here I am, sitting in front of my laptop, talking to you guys thru the internet. And I feel that my ability in writing is very low now, haha. Oh I don’t mind!

beautiw

A New Day Has Come

WISUDA 74

UNIVERSITAS NEGERI SURABAYA

10 JULI 2012

Booksigning Partikel with Dee

Such a great honor for a new fan like me to met her, a brilliant talented writer, 

Dewi “Dee” Lestari :)

me and Dee

erlin and Dee

June 16^th, 2012 –Gramedia Ciputra World

beautiw

The Long and Winding Road

Whoaaaaaaaaaa it’s really loooonnggggg and winding roaaddddd, that leads to yudisium, hahaha. Well anyway, Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah. Puji syukur kepada Allah Yang Maha Baik. Akhirnya saya dan 18 teman Sastra Inggris 2008 UNESA bisa yudisium 8 Juni 2012. Which is kita mendahului sekian puluh teman dalam angkatan yang sama :D Alhamdulillah....

Saya sangat bersyukur dan lega setangah mati. Mengapa? Karena jalan yang kami tempuh sangat teramat berattt. Ibaratnya kami tidak diberi jeda untuk hanya sekedar menarik nafas. Kalo kata @erlinaprilia seperti bermain halang rintang, selesai satu rintangan maka rintangan lain masih menunggu. Tapi puji syukur kami semua mampu melalui semua walaupun pulang sore tiap hari, padahal banyak teman yang harus kerja malamnya, makan sehari sekali, kepikiran 24 hours 7 days a week, ga bisa tidur nyenyak, wira-wiri Ketintang-Lidah-Ketintang demi mengurus ini itu sampai ngesot sampai nangis darah tiap malem.

Kalo ada yang tanya kenapa sih bisa se-hectic ini? Ini dikarenakan jadwal kami sidang sangatlah mepet dengan batas akhir penyerahan berkas yudisium. Hanya SATU minggu! waktu yang sangat hectic dari sebelum sidang hingga terkumpulnya semua berkas hari ini. Dan kalo ada yang tanya lagi, emang kenapa ga wisuda oktober aja? Kan enak ga keburu kaya gini? Emmm juni ke oktober itu lama banget you know, dan semua urusan kami sudah beres, ceilahhh congkakk :p Lemetelyu why kami bisa heboh seperti ini:

H- sidang, kami masih diombang-ambingkan oleh jadwal sidang yang belum pasti. Padahal saya dan beberapa teman sudah mendaftar terlebih dahulu sejak 2 minggu yang lalu. Ehhh terus mau diserobot sama rombongan yang daftarnya telat. Ga terima banget lah, saya and the gank ngluruk beberapa pihak supaya gimana caranya kami bisa maju duluan dan ternyata berhasil, huahahaha. Belum selesai, ini adalah sejarah saudara-saudara, untuk pertama kalinya, sidang skripsi dikelar DUA kali! *facepalm* Ini karena ada salah satu dosen yang absen pada sidang hari pertama sehingga KHUSUS Pratiwi, Erlin, Fahrinda, Yosi, Chakim dan Nayu sidang digelar DUA hari!

Yang kedua, kami dipusingkan oleh revisi. Kalo revisi cepet sehari sih enteng. Lah ini sampai dua hari ga dibalik-balikin trus piyeee? T_T  sementara kami terus dikejar deadline pengumpulan berkas yudisium yang semakin mepet. Lalu puyeng minta tanda tangan ini itu, stempel ini itu, ngumpulin skripsi ke tiga perpustakaan, jurusan, fakultas, dan universitas. Jika satu tempat ya mudah. Lah ini Lidah Ketintang Lidah Ketintang, aduh mbookkkk.

Terakhir, begitu semua berkas beres, syarat lengkap, ada masalah yang belum juga kelar. Apa coba? Transkrip nilaii!!! Bayangin ketika semua syarat sudah lengkap tapi kalian ga punya nilai, wakakaka maka yudisium diundur dan wisuda oktober –“ but thank God semua beres pada menit eh detik terakhir. Jadi lumayan ngoyo banget dari pra-sidang sampai batas pengumpulan berkas yudisium hari ini, alhamdulillahhhh

Yang pasti saya pribadi mengucapkan terima kasih kepada teman-teman, terutama Erlin, Fahrinda, Nayu, Faris, Chakim, Yosi, Meliska, yang sudah bareng-bareng panas-panas mondar-mandir sampai ke rumah pak dekan, ketawa bareng, bingung bareng, ahhhh I love you all guys!

Lalu terima kasih juga kepada semua pihak yang sudah mempermudah jalan kami menuju tangga yudisium. Wonokromo udan deres, sing kuoso sing bales, amiinnn.

Dan kepada semua yang mengenal atau yang membaca tulisan ini tolong doakan saya supaya cepet mendapatkan pekerjaan dan gaji yang layak, ehehehe aminn.

sidang skripsi 24 & 25 Mei 2012

kerempongan ngurus yudisium

ALHAMDULILLAH FINALLY :)

syukuran atas lancarnya perjalanan menuju yudisium 8 Juni 2012 :D

 beautiw

Ego!

What is egocentric? Self-centered? Selfish? I can say that those three words have the same meaning. Egocentrics regard oneself and one's own opinions or interests as most important or valid. They only care about their opinion, fuck other’s opinion off. They won’t listen to anybody’s opinion, even though they are wrong.

Been 22 years living in this world makes me realize that basically everybody is self-centered. Yes, everybody is egocentric with the different stage. I’ll try to explain the stages in my own point of view. Remember, this is my point of view, what I write here is based on my observation.

1. The first stage is included as “OKAY” stage. Why? Because this stage, the egocentrics do selfish to themselves. They do not hurt anybody else because of their egocentrism. This people know what best for themselves, they will try to find a way how to reach that without kicking somebody ass off. For example: two persons (A and B) have the same task. Both person are qualified and have already know the way how to manage their task. They do not help each other because of it. And they do not destroy each other too because they want to be the best! They compete fairly.
2. The second stage is “STUBBORN” stage. Nah this is rather annoying person ya. They actually know they are wrong but they keep doing it. They won’t listen to anybody by saying: “this is my life, don’t tell me what to do!” alrite alrite, this is your life, but listen to somebody’s opinion is not a crime too. Remember that you don’t live alone. There are million people surround you. If someone says good things so take it, or at least just think about it, err okay just listen to it, enough. They do that because they care of you. But on the other hand, if they say something bad to you, it is your choice. If they say it right, don’t be offended, just change your attitude, if it is wrong, go ahead! Nothing worries about it. But please, listen! And then think, ”am I doing it right?”
3. The third stage is “NINJA” stage. Hahaha why did I call em so? Because they are backstabber thingy. Yeaa they are nice in front of you but disgusting in your back. They act like they care but actually don’t. They will help you yeaa, but then they will leave you faster whenever they get a change. Uh-oh ninja!
4. The last stage is “ERROR” stage. Whoaaa this is the most dangerous stage ya know! This kinda person won’t hesitate to drag you down! Yes yes, I see these persons many times and everywhere. They are not hesitate to hurt somebody else even though their friends or family just to reach their goal, their egocentric goal. They will walk ahead without looking back. They don’t even care whether you are in a coma or bleeding between life and death. They are not afraid of other people life. They hate if people are better than them, thus they will do anything to cut you off, suckkksss!

Until now, I don’t know exactly why people like that do exist. Im just too lazy to talk to them. Hehe even though I have to admit it that I also selfish sometimes. Some people will be hurt of me but some people just take it easy. I do listen and FILTER of what people say. I just avoid hurting people’s feeling.

In my own opinion, being egocentric is a choice. But don't hurt other people moreover drag them down. Just go for your own business.

So again, this is only my opinion. Not opened for debate session! lol just kidding, comment would be appreciated. Siyah! 

beautiw